I have 4 sisters and 1 bro. I’m in the middle. My youngest sis, Pam, just lost her youngest son, Matthew. He was only 18. He apparently pulled a gun on a cop and the cop shot him in self-defense. I learned a very important thing about funerals, they are not for the dead, but [...]

ah irony, how i detest thee
Of course she’s not home. Who would want to be here?! Wouldn’t you rather be at an amusement park and out partying with your friends then spending another dull day with your sick partner. I know that’s what I’d be doing if the situation were reversed. If I knew she [...]

I have a rare illness known as Ogilve’s syndrome among other things. it means that my entire digestive tract no long “obeys the rules”. it functions when no food is in sight, thereby digesting my own digestive tract in an effort to do something useful, or does not digest for days, causing food in my [...]

I don’t know how it works or why, but for me, I was born a lesbian.
My first heartbreak was when i was 4. There was a large, beautiful, southern woman who cared for me (and assume some of my sibs) in my parent’s government housing (read truly poverty stricken) area. suddenly my dad freaked [...]

I love a good convo, put it in a coffeeshop with the sunlight shining almost horizontal, in that way it does that lights up the underside of leaves and makes them glow like glass, and i’m in heaven.
I think I love stories most of all. They don’t have to teach me about the meaning of [...]

What do you do when you are on temporary disability and the puppy’s asleep? Learn how to Blog
questions to ask:
How many times do you tell your partner you love him/her/it/them/in process?
Why do we crave minaturization and fear Godzilla?
these and many more diverse questions will be asked and abandoned ad nauseum.
join us for more racuous ramblings.
mox [...]

PRINCIPLES OF CONFLICT
(Using Conflict as an Opportunity for Constructive Change)
About conflict in general
1) People are good. Assume that others have good intentions. Clarify your own intentions
2) Conflict comes out of legitimate differences in interest.
3) Everyone involved in a shared project shares some interests.
4) Dealing with conflict has the potential to make life better for everyone [...]

There was a Dr. Phil on this week the diamatiq of a wildly gruel demon was very true to my expereices! so true that Lori called me later and said “hi”.
sorry i am not writing wondrorous words of wisdom.i feel i should set up a set of catalogues for different subjects. [...]